205. Like the key around my neck didn't make me a large guy.

I'm a small tired of political solstice, especially since my own life is rather interesting. Who follows the blogs of my wife Świechny knows that we are wandering here and there, erstwhile closer, erstwhile more, we are watching old films (mostly old, there are exceptions, but we would alternatively not talk about the novels), we have adopted 2 gorgeous couple of weeks of cute kittens from the shelter, and in the meantime, I compose a very hard communicative about my colleagues murdered in the late 1990s in gangster fights. The second involves intensive burial in the past, reminding the FACTS, ordering the memories that I will quote here.

As you most likely knew, on the Internet, especially on social media, there are countless comforts for my generation saying that we grew up with a key around our necks on the fluff and not adequate that we survived, we were inactive happy and grew up large people. “ AFTER WHAT WNOSISZ?” would like to ask anyone who sells this content on the Internet, due to the fact that it is adequate to control to any political forum (from those dominated by the generation of keys around the neck) to realize that we are not so pleased with each other.

What can I say about childhood? I remember first and foremost the pervasive violence. From parents, teachers and peers. We, the students with the key around our necks, were highly demoralized, we were attitude toward confrontation, due to the fact that in this direction we were pushed by adults who “had good advice.” You must not ‘give’, you must be tough, fight.... Did you know that erstwhile we ran distant on a school journey in the Table Mountains from the locals looking for a fight, our babysitter and teacher laughed at us in one, saying that there were more of us? Fortunately, we had more sense and experience than she had in this subject, poorly aware that we could not number on food. But not all of my colleagues in this situation would usage their brains. I've known rather quite a few people who would alternatively usage their fists. It was those of my friends who took the advice of hardness besides hard to heart and in this fight went farthest, who were shot at 22 and 23. But wait, wait, it says on the net that we survived. Yes, those who survived survived, and those who did not last odor flowers from underneath.

Maciej Zembaty (Leonard Cohen cover) It seems so long ago, Nancy.

A much larger group than the people who were shot are advanced and drunk. 15 years ago, erstwhile she and my friend took us to the memorials, we counted over 20 friends from the cemetery. To make things better, we both remembered possibly ten, the remainder of our fast death only crossed 1 of us due to the fact that the another didn't remember who we were talking about. It's expected there's any group we've both forgotten. In those 15 years, the next ones came to the advanced and drunk. Additionally, colleagues in prisons and psychiatric hospitals and in outpatient treatment. I didn't bother counting with anyone I know, but I'm beautiful certain 20 would be there. For 150 people who, according to research, can at the same time become acquainted with the brain, this is simply a large percentage.

Underwear – Stefan

There were besides people who couldn't handle the confrontation. Their parents moved them to another schools and disappeared from sight. I wouldn't give a nickel for their intellectual state, but erstwhile individual was gone, they were gone. At an early age, we rapidly found friends and forgot about them. Actually, it was best for the “kujony” who preferred books, films, another forms of art and entertainment, than for us kids with a key around their necks, to think that the ostracism we sentenced them to was the worst punishment. I guess due to the fact that we were afraid of being rejected by the group.

All right, that's the failure side. What about the profit side? Allegedly, we were so independent, present the kids could dream about it. Of course, under this concept, they hide simple activities that, if needed, all moron will learn within 3 months. You don't think it takes more time to learn how to make a chop or replace a bulb. Any emigrant who had to work physically well below his education will confirm that activities specified as painting, setting up regips, or installing home plumbing are to be handled at specified a time. You shouldn't have chased around with a key around your neck! The full point is that knowing all these simple activities at erstwhile is totally unnecessary nowadays, due to the fact that it is much easier and healthier to take any overtime at work and pay individual who does it all day and gets caught in the mediate of the day. So let us not exaggerate these benefits of excessive same - independence, especially since if we want to do something ourselves, we dedicate part of our lives to it. It's very nice, of course, erstwhile my wife has a fresh wife making me dinner, but, to tell you the truth, I know better things than waiting for dinner.

And 1 more thing. I don't think the key around my neck makes me a better man. If anything has helped me develop, then cutting off the umbilical cord and surviving in a separate self-employed flat (let me remind you that children with a key around their neck did not have it). And change, change, change. As a 20-year-old, I took out of my home, school and yard violence, anti-Semitism, homophobia, contempt for the weak. That's any beautiful good crap for a gorgeous fluff. I was fortunate adequate to learn and change anyway. But I besides have colleagues who, to this day, can't even admit that bullying was a large bitch, and to this day they claim that this is life. They just forget to add that this is life in pathology. Yeah, I know it was a small vulgar at the end, but I grew up with a key around my neck!

PS.

Milk consecutive from the cattle was not my favourite drink, if I had fun in hay, it was just due to the fact that I couldn't do anything else at the time, wearing torn clothes frustrated me, I was ashamed especially by comparing myself with better placed children, I didn't dream about swimming in the river, due to the fact that I preferred swimming in the pool, I didn't dream about spending time in the countryside, I just wanted to go to the warm sea, I didn't like the flutter and alternatively of standing there, I'd alternatively play football, normal, leather, not rubber. And I wasn't happy that alternatively of shooting a real goal, we were making it out of sticks.